she's pragmatic, she lives by herself (wtf??), she has a dog, she's a junior police officer sorta.
she likes whipped cream, which is kind of interesting considering her usual demeanor...who knew she liked sweets??
She likes to read but she also likes to listen––she's really good company...
And she has a really nice laugh...
Her name is really important and she's very prideful about her family and who she is, which...yeah.
She can be pretty argumentative too, like, oh man, you should've SEEN her and kyouko on the network this one time, she has a tendency to be kind of curt and blunt which makes her come off as rude
oh. no reason, that is just more than i originally thought. which is a good thing! better than crushing on someone you know nothing about. and she knows a lot about you too, right? i think what i am getting from all of this is that nothing's actually really changed, so it is just kind of trying to decide if you're comfortable with...the whole girl on girl thing.
it did not seem that weird when i wrote it, but it does in reading it. sorry. ok, my bad. it is just deciding if you would be comfortable dating a girl. and like kissing and stuff. is that better?
... advice: figure THAT PART out first. idk maybe she is struggling with the same thing? i will admit with dave it was a little easier because i've known he's bi for months. then it was just freaking out about if he would like me specifically and my own mess of whatever and this isn't about me so never mind. seriously though. maybe find that out? or at least if she's maybe interested in you, too.
"I know you're overcoming a lot right now but are you into girls i mean you were kind of pretending to be a boy doesn't that like imply you're a lesbian??? Lmk hahahaha"
first of all, no, not like that. but she knows you had a crush on her when she was posing as a dude? maybe just kind of...when the dust settles, hint at it. talk about boys you've liked in the past and see if she's ever liked anybody. she might trust you with that?
well yes it is but you're the one who countered flat-out asking her so i went with that route. you want my actual advice, ayano? like "this is probably stupid but here is what i think" kind of advice.
think about it. think about if you could get past the idea of dating a girl before you do anything else and before you even think about how to ask her about it. you can like a person a lot and still be wary about dating them because of stuff like that. that would be bad in the long run. if in the end you decide you would be okay trying it out because you like naoto that much, you have to be honest with her. she already knows you liked her when you thought she was a boy. so tell her that you still like her as a girl. and be prepared for that to possibly end in not dating or whatever. that is the problem with dating in general. it's kind of a game of chance. it's not like elementary school where it was like "do you like me check yes or no." emotions are fucked up and sexuality's a hot mess so fuck it, you know? fuck. this is stupid just...talk to her when you're ready and you will know exactly the right thing to say or do even without planning. i know how you are. it will make sense when the time's right.
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so she's pretty, smart, and strong.
what else do you really know about her?
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she likes whipped cream, which is kind of interesting considering her usual demeanor...who knew she liked sweets??
She likes to read but she also likes to listen––she's really good company...
And she has a really nice laugh...
Her name is really important and she's very prideful about her family and who she is, which...yeah.
She can be pretty argumentative too, like, oh man, you should've SEEN her and kyouko on the network this one time, she has a tendency to be kind of curt and blunt which makes her come off as rude
um....i know a lot of stuff. Why?
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no reason, that is just more than i originally thought.
which is a good thing! better than crushing on someone you know nothing about.
and she knows a lot about you too, right?
i think what i am getting from all of this is that nothing's actually really changed, so it is just kind of trying to decide if you're comfortable with...the whole girl on girl thing.
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do you have to call it "girl on girl"???
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sorry.
ok, my bad. it is just deciding if you would be comfortable dating a girl. and like kissing and stuff.
is that better?
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but yea that's the issue??? All the fantasies I've ever had have been about being with boys
Naoto uh
Included......
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does NAOTO even like girls?
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whoops
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advice: figure THAT PART out first.
idk maybe she is struggling with the same thing?
i will admit with dave it was a little easier because i've known he's bi for months. then it was just freaking out about if he would like me specifically and my own mess of whatever and this isn't about me so never mind.
seriously though. maybe find that out? or at least if she's maybe interested in you, too.
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"I know you're overcoming a lot right now but are you into girls i mean you were kind of pretending to be a boy doesn't that like imply you're a lesbian??? Lmk hahahaha"
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but she knows you had a crush on her when she was posing as a dude?
maybe just kind of...when the dust settles, hint at it. talk about boys you've liked in the past and see if she's ever liked anybody.
she might trust you with that?
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Isn't that like...i dont know
A little bit childish? : /
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you want my actual advice, ayano? like "this is probably stupid but here is what i think" kind of advice.
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Give me the harsh reality, egbert
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think about if you could get past the idea of dating a girl before you do anything else and before you even think about how to ask her about it.
you can like a person a lot and still be wary about dating them because of stuff like that.
that would be bad in the long run.
if in the end you decide you would be okay trying it out because you like naoto that much, you have to be honest with her.
she already knows you liked her when you thought she was a boy.
so tell her that you still like her as a girl.
and be prepared for that to possibly end in not dating or whatever.
that is the problem with dating in general. it's kind of a game of chance.
it's not like elementary school where it was like "do you like me check yes or no."
emotions are fucked up and sexuality's a hot mess so fuck it, you know?
fuck. this is stupid just...talk to her when you're ready and you will know exactly the right thing to say or do even without planning.
i know how you are. it will make sense when the time's right.